Mindfulness is a powerful practice that can help you stay present and connected to the world around you. One way to practice mindfulness is by meditating. There are many different forms, but I enjoy focused meditation. You can cultivate self-awareness, reduce stress and anxiety, improve your focus, and gain a greater sense of happiness simply through meditation.
Meditation at its core is about observation, letting go, and enjoying the moment rather than focusing on the past or thinking too far into the future. With focused meditation, our goal is relax, focus on the present moment, and if distractions arise, we return to our breath. Here’s a simple approach to getting started for beginners.
What is focused meditation?
There are 16 different types of mediation according to Headspace, but today we’ll be looking at focused meditation. This form of meditation is simple, easy to follow, great for beginners, and perfect for those who live a busy lifestyle.
Focused meditation doesn’t require anything other than sitting or laying down and focusing on your breath. Anytime unwanted thoughts arise, you redirect your focus back to your breath and repeat the process.
6 Simple Meditation Tips for Beginners
1) Start Slow Meditation encourages present-moment awareness and as a beginner, it’s important to start slow. It can be difficult to sit still for minutes on end just focusing on your breath, so I recommend meditating for 1-2 minutes daily. Once you’re able to get used to sitting still, that’s when you can start trying 5, 10, and even 30-minute intervals.
2) Location Find a comfortable space where you can meditate for a few minutes away from distractions. You can sit on the floor, on a chair, or even lay down in your bed. Once you’ve been practicing for a while, you’ll find that you can meditate just about anywhere. Such as focusing on your breath at your desk, during lunch, or anytime you have a moment to yourself.
3) Breathing As you close your eyes, begin focusing on your breath. There are many breathing techniques to choose from, but I personally like box breathing, also known as square breathing. Box breathing is when you inhale through your nose for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, exhale through your mouth for 4 seconds, and hold again before repeating the same steps. This technique calms your nervous system and decreases stress in the body.
Tip! Use essential oils to enhance your meditation experience. You can apply your favorite oils to the palms of your hands and take a deep inhale, or add a few drops into a diffuser. The smell of your essential oil can act as an anchor. Whenever you feel your mind wandering, the smell can help ground you back to the present moment. I personally love peppermint and lavender.
4) Observing As you begin meditating, you’ll notice that your mind will start to drift. Random thoughts will come and go, and as they do, gently redirect your attention back to your breath. These thoughts can be distracting, but instead of reacting or judging your thoughts, practice observing them. You can envision a clear blue sky, and as these thoughts enter, you can imagine them as clouds floating by. Just observe, focus on your breath, and let them pass.
5) Patience We’re used to thinking about a million things at once, so quieting your mind during meditation, especially as a beginner, can be a challenge. It’s important to approach meditation from a non-judgemental standpoint and understand that each session will be unique. If you’re having a difficult time quieting your thoughts, remain patient, and try again tomorrow.
6) Consistency Consistency is the key to success. Quieting your mind and focusing on the present moment can be difficult at first, but the more you practice this skill, the easier it’ll become. Developing healthy habits take time, and by practicing for a few minutes each day, you’re already 1% better than you were yesterday.
Mindfulness is a journey, not a destination. Everything requires patience and practice. As long as you show up for yourself daily, you’ll be able to enjoy all of the benefits that meditation has to offer. Through meditation, we can learn to let go of attachments, become more present, and find more peace and joy in our daily lives. What’s your favorite type of meditation? Do you have any tips for beginners? I’d love to hear your suggestions. For more posts relating to wellness, visit my tag here.
Kal @ Reader Voracious says
This is a great list of suggestions for meditation practice! Every time I’ve been dedicated to it, the positive results have been near instant… but of course, I don’t make the time for it hardly ever. I really should build a daily habit for myself and my well-being. Thanks for the inspiration!
Her Digital Coffee says
Keeping a realistic routine ranging from 1-5 minutes to start makes it much easier to stick with! I hope you build a routine that works for you. Thank you for reading Kal!
James Brook says
I completely agreed that meditation is an exceptional way to unwind both the body and mind. Thank you for sharing this fantastic information with us.
Her Digital Coffee says
Thank you for reading James!
Charity says
I love these meditation tips. Thanks for sharing them!
Her Digital Coffee says
Thank you for reading Charity!
Melody Jacob says
Thanks for sharing these tips for beginners
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Her Digital Coffee says
My pleasure. Thank you for reading Melody!
ER LeVar says
Location is so important! You can have everything else set up, but if you’re trying to meditate in the midst of chaos or without a relaxing space, it can definitely be difficult to get to that place!
Her Digital Coffee says
Absolutely, finding a place that’s comfortable is key. Thank you for reading!
Lux G. says
Focusing has been a challenge for me. These simple tips are really helpful. 🙂
Her Digital Coffee says
I’m glad they were helpful Lux. Thank you for reading!
PerlaGiselle says
I would love to practice meditation. I am not really familiar with it, but I know many that swear by it. Thank you for sharing these tips! Have a great week!
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Her Digital Coffee says
Thank you for reading Perla. Enjoy your weekend!
Candice Sandler says
Meditation is a wonderful practice, especially for beginners who are looking to reduce stress and increase calmness and clarity.
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Her Digital Coffee says
Yes, it’s a great and effective practice. Thank you for reading Candice!
Fransic verso says
We definitely need to have consistency. Something that I need to improve and get it better.
Her Digital Coffee says
Absolutely, it makes all the difference. Thank you for reading Fransic!
Lauren says
I am new to meditation so this post was really helpful with some great tips and suggestions. Thank you for sharing.
Lauren
Her Digital Coffee says
I’m happy it was helpful Lauren! Thank you for reading.
Across The Great Planes says
These are really great suggestions! I’ve never tried meditation before but you’ve inspired me to give it a go. I find breathing exercises really helpful so I think I’d see a lot of benefits from slowly building up meditating, too. Thank you so much for sharing x
Her Digital Coffee says
I’m so happy to hear that. It’s a great mindful practice and I wish you the best of luck!
Molly | Transatlantic Notes says
I must admit that I struggle a bit with meditation so this was super useful; I think I need to go back and unlearn some not so great meditation habits and this post has pointed me in the right direction!
Her Digital Coffee says
Meditation can be challenging, especially with our habits. I hope it becomes easier by taking it slow and with lots of practice. Thank you for reading Molly!
Jodie says
These are great suggestions on practicing focused meditation! It reminds me of the struggles of the main character of Eat, Pray, Love who struggled to stay focused. See eventually could achieve focus (with much practice) and this was life-changing for her. Thanks for sharing!
Her Digital Coffee says
That’s so interesting! I haven’t watched Eat, Pray, Love but I’ll definitely have to check it out. I’m glad that she masters it with practice. Thank you for reading Jodie!